So when exactly did you realize that you were no longer --- 21? In my head I'm kicking and screaming & having conniptions - lost a tooth with gaping hole in my mouth and dreading an implant. If that alone is not bad enough, at the end of my tooth extraction, just coming out of the anesthesia, I heard really loud and obnoxious grunting-kind-of-snoring, like those 3AM horrible sleep wrecking ones where you lie there staring down at your oblivious hubby's face ready to snuff his life out ones. Well, guess who was grunting and snoring. The shame when I realized who it was - I couldn't get out of that dentist office fast enough. Lol !!! I now officially look and feel like "Grandma". Not liking it one bit. So, when was it your "defining moment" when you realized those freckles sprinkled lightly over your nose and cheeks were no freckles but age spots and oh, when you lean over and look down to see that the skin in the crease between your breasts (let's not even go there - it's another discussion - Lol!) , looks like skin from those nice and weathered senior citizens laying on the beach where in your head you say "Gee it looks like leather!"